How to break bad eating habits
It's not just about what you eat, but how you eat also matters
By Cheshire Que
When it comes to maintaining a healthy weight and achieving optimal health at any age, both the quality and quantity of the food we eat greatly influence our weight and overall well-being. However, it's not just what or how much we eat that matters. Our eating behaviors and lifestyle habits can also make or break our health and wellness.
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Take time to reflect on your eating habits. Here are some common unhealthy eating patterns that can wreak havoc on both your physical and mental health. Once you've identified these habits, you can begin making healthier, more mindful choices. The goal is to stay nourished and satisfied. After all, eating should be both healthy and pleasurable.
Emotional eating
Do you turn to food for comfort when you're sad, frustrated, upset, or feeling down? Do you feel the urge to eat when you're celebrating or in a particularly good mood? Do you reward yourself with food whenever you accomplish something?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, you may be an emotional eater.
Technically, you're not physically hungry. Instead, you're trying to fill an emotional void by seeking a boost from the brain's reward system. Eating delicious food triggers the release of feel-good hormones such as dopamine, making you feel better temporarily. However, you can also stimulate these mood-enhancing hormones through exercise, social interaction, or by accomplishing meaningful tasks, whether big or small.
If you're an emotional eater and find yourself craving food, drink a glass of water or sip a cup of tea first to help soothe your nerves. The brain can mistake thirst for hunger, so you may simply be dehydrated. The tannins in tea may also help curb cravings, while giving yourself time before eating delays instant gratification.
Afterward, choose non-food strategies to cope with your emotions. If you need to let off steam, go for a walk—even if it's just pacing around your room or office. Listen to calming music. You can also write down whatever comes to mind on a sheet of paper, including thoughts or feelings you cannot express aloud, then discard it afterward. Writing by hand can place the mind in a meditative state. Talking to someone you trust can also help. Better yet, spend time in prayer. Many people find that prayer provides hope and emotional comfort, and research suggests it may also help regulate emotions.
Swing eating
Do you find yourself cheating on your diet and feeling guilty afterward? Do you eat "good" food in public but indulge in "bad" food in private? This eating pattern often leaves people feeling both unsatisfied and guilty.
It's time to change the way you think about food. Instead of labeling foods as "good" or "bad," "healthy" or "unhealthy," embrace the concept of life-giving foods and foods that can be enjoyed occasionally as treats.
Break free from the cycle of deprivation and overindulgence. Food is meant to nourish our bodies. Prioritize life-giving foods such as vegetables, fresh fruits, legumes, and whole grains like oats, quinoa, and brown or colored rice. We don't eat them simply because they're delicious—we eat them because our bodies need them.
At the same time, eating should remain enjoyable. There's room for treats, provided they are consumed in moderation after nourishing meals.
If you'd like dessert after a meal, consider sharing it with others. If you're craving chocolate, opt for a bite-sized piece instead of an entire bar. Ultimately, it's your overall eating pattern—not a single indulgence—that matters most.
Likewise, don't force yourself to eat plain salads all day. Doing so can lead to taste fatigue and intensify cravings. Instead, make your meals more satisfying by adding fruits, nuts, seeds, or other wholesome ingredients. Having oatmeal for breakfast? Mix in pure cocoa powder, soy milk or nut milk, fresh fruit, and nuts for extra flavor and nutrition.
The more restrictive and boring your meals become in the name of "clean eating," the stronger your cravings for less nutritious foods may become. The goal for swing eaters is to increase their intake of plant-based foods while allowing themselves occasional treats in sensible portions.
Nighttime nibbling
Do you eat very little during the day, only to consume most of your calories at night? Do you rarely feel hungry during the day but become ravenous in the evening? Do you find yourself searching the pantry or refrigerator long after you should already be asleep?
Your stomach needs to relearn when to expect food. People who eat late at night are often too busy during the day and tend to prioritize other responsibilities over regular meals.
Frequent late-night eating has been linked to numerous health concerns, including poor sleep quality, weight gain, insulin resistance, non-alcoholic fatty liver disease, gallbladder problems, and elevated cholesterol and triglyceride levels.
Nighttime nibblers should gradually begin eating small, balanced meals during regular mealtimes, even if they don't initially feel hungry. As your digestive system adjusts to receiving food throughout the day, your gut microbiome and hormones involved in digestion and metabolism will gradually adapt. Over time, you'll begin to feel hungry when your body actually needs nourishment, making nighttime cravings less intense and improving both sleep quality and overall health.
If your nighttime eating is associated with depression or another psychological condition, it's best to seek guidance from a psychologist or psychiatrist, along with a registered nutritionist-dietitian.
Say goodbye to unhealthy eating habits and take the first step toward becoming a healthier, stronger, and more energized version of yourself.