Rediscovering faith, tradition, and growth
A reflection on tradition, personal devotion, and finding meaning in the Lenten season
By Jacel Dhafnie Lolo, 22
Journalism
City of Malabon University
Every Filipino household carries its own set of traditions during the Lenten season. For me, it has always been a time to reignite, or sometimes rediscover, my faith. It offers a pause from the usual rush of everyday life, a week grounded in Catholic practices like Pabasa, Visita Iglesia, and Senakulo.
Growing up in a home deeply rooted in Catholic tradition, I usually spent Lent indoors, watching Lenten specials, praying, and reflecting. Outside, I would hear distant chants of prayers echoing through the neighborhood. There is also caridad, the act of charity, which I witnessed through my mom as she prepared dishes to be shared with our neighbors.
It has always felt nostalgic and comforting. Over time, however, I have noticed that some of these traditions are slowly fading, especially among my generation. That is why I try to find my own ways not only to strengthen my faith but also to use this break as a chance to grow.
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One of the things I have learned is the importance of finding spaces for silence. In the middle of all the noise that surrounds us daily, Lent becomes my excuse to step away. Sometimes, I visit churches. Other times, I seek quiet places, whether by the beach or in nature, where I can slow down and reflect. It can also be a space closer to the city, like an overlooking spot that offers that sense of peace. These moments away from the usual routine help me breathe, pause, and think more clearly.
I also turn to journaling during this time. As someone who values quiet moments, writing has become a powerful way for me to process my thoughts, confront personal struggles, and express gratitude. During Lent, my journal feels like a space for prayer. It is quiet, honest, and deeply personal. Through it, I find a way to reconnect not only with my faith but also with myself.
Food also takes on a different meaning for me during this season. Lent encourages mindfulness, even in the kitchen. I take this time to try new recipes, especially meatless dishes that I often discover online. Cooking with loved ones becomes more intentional, almost therapeutic. Slowing down to prepare meals reminds me to be present, and sharing them makes the experience even more meaningful.
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Volunteering is another way I try to live out the meaning of Lent. Caridad, for me, goes beyond tradition. It becomes a conscious act of generosity. Whether it is joining outreach programs, helping in feeding activities, or participating in donation drives, these small efforts reflect compassion in action. They remind me that faith is not just something I practice privately but something I share with others.
Finally, Lent gives me space for personal improvement. Beyond rest and reflection, I use this time to explore new interests and develop skills. Workshops, seminars, and short courses become avenues for growth. They help me discover new passions and improve myself in ways that go beyond the spiritual.
For me, Lent continues to be a meaningful and spiritual season. Even as traditions evolve, I find comfort in creating my own ways to observe the holiday—ways that keep the essence of faith, reflection, and growth alive.
Jacel Dhafnie Trinidad Lolo is a 22-year-old Journalism student from City of Malabon University (CMU) and a current intern at the Manila Bulletin. She is a Teenage Pregnancy Prevention (TPP) advocate under the Likhaan Center for Women. She’s into writing and producing short films and documentaries.
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