Raising children to love their country takes a series of intentional moves from parents. It's in the way we speak to our kids, the stories we read to them, the places we take them, and even the food we prepare at home. These everyday activities may seem simple, but they leave a lasting impact in helping children grow up proud of their roots. Three moms share practical tips you can try at home.

I’ve always believed that we play an important role in instilling a love for one’s country. One quote that stayed with me is from our national social scientist, Dr. Honey Carandang: “Parenting is nation-building.” This left a mark on me, both as an educator and a mother of three.

When my two older daughters were little, we didn’t focus much on Filipino as their first language—and it’s been a challenge to teach it now. So with our youngest, Nathan, I tried a simple experiment: to expose him to Filipino early and naturally. We read Filipino board books, sang lullabies like “Bahay Kubo,” and used Filipino in everyday conversations. Now, at age four, he switches between English and Filipino with ease—and even prefers Filipino when making witty remarks: “’Di ba, Mama, sabi ko na?” (See, Mama? I told you so!)

Building a small library at home also helps. Set aside a section for Filipiniana, such as books on history, national heroes, riddles, food, and more. We started with Adarna board books (his favorites were “Ako ay may Lobo” and “Bahay Kubo”) and moved on to Tahanan picture books like “Meme” and “Tagu-Taguan.” We also love visiting book fairs—it’s great family bonding, too!

Through language and stories, we help our children grow proud of their roots. Love for the Filipino language leads to love for the Philippines.—Tanya Velasco, teacher, family life and child development specialist, and mom of three

One way I nurture my children Himig and Harana’s love for the Philippines is through weekend trips that spark curiosity and connection. At Museo Pambata, they discover Filipino values through play. In Fort Santiago, we walked the same path where José Rizal spent his final days, bringing history to life. At the National Museum of Natural History, they met Lolong, marveled at a giant whale skeleton, and stood beneath the Tree of Life. These hands-on moments are proof that experience is the best teacher—and by living our story, they’re learning to be proud of their roots.—Iam Serreno, preschool teacher, host, content creator, and mom of two

As a mom who deeply cherishes our culinary heritage, I believe that love for our country starts in the kitchen. I make a mindful effort to cook Filipino dishes like sinigang, tinola, adobo, and even simple meals like monggo or tinapa with rice. Food connects my children to their roots. It sparks conversations about our history, family traditions, and the stories behind each dish.

I grew up cooking with my mom, and now I do the same with my kids. Sometimes, we even eat with our hands, embracing this beautiful tradition. It’s heartwarming to see them enjoy these moments, especially when we go to the province.

Being Filipino is worth celebrating every day, through love, laughter, and one ulam at a time.—Pattie Palma Gil-Poniente, entrepreneur, wellness enthusiast, chef, and mom of two