Living in Manila is like being in a long-term relationship: filled with history, highs, and lows, and, ultimately, a love that endures.

Before World War II, Manila was hailed as the “Paris of the Orient.” Despite the turbulent political climate, the city thrived culturally in the 1970s and 1980s, arguably becoming the epicenter of lifestyle in all of Asia. As depicted in films and music, Manila remains one of the most compelling subjects of modern Filipino life.

Growing up as a 90s kid, my connection with Manila didn't start with encountering its past glory. In my formative years at Ateneo de Manila University, I gravitated toward more modern and hip cities like Makati, BGC, and Ortigas. Manila wasn't initially part of the glimmering options.

My true relationship with Manila really began through an introduction by an interior design school in Makati. Philippine School of Interior Design’s History of Arts and Architecture class altered my perspective, drawing my attention to a different kind of scale and proportion.

This class took me on a literal journey through Manila's rich history and culture. Trips to The National Museum, The Manila Hotel, Philippine International Convention Center, Cultural Center of the Philippines, the Coconut Palace, and more, allowed me to realize and discover Manila’s unpretentious beauty. I was captivated.

As in all healthy relationships, love isn’t about seeking, or even desiring, everything perfect, ideal, or popular.

Fortunately, the local government, with support from the National Government and various agencies, has embarked on continuous rehabilitation efforts for architectural landmarks and institutions. There's an ever-growing interest in revitalizing Pasig River, starting with Manila’s tragically burnt iconic Post Office Building—an inter-local government effort worth supporting.

Attributing this budding romance to my formal schooling, I'm swept away by the realization that Manila isn't just rekindling its past but also investing in stronger foundations for a better future.

While driving through Sampaloc, Manila, weeks ago, searching for property investment with my brothers, we discovered two public schools, Dr. Alejandro Albert Elementary School and Ramon Magsaysay High School, looking unlike typical public schools. They outshine most private schools in the area with their 10-storey structures, modern design, brightness, spaciousness, air-conditioned classrooms, and large open courtyards for sports and events.

These schools follow the inauguration of Manila Science High School and Rosauro Almario Elementary School in December 2023 and January this year, setting a new standard for public education. Having traveled extensively for interior design projects, I haven't seen public schools like them that inspire and shape the next generation holistically—a proud moment for Manila.

Now back to living in Manila after establishing my home and business addresses in Ortigas, I can confidently say there's no other warm embrace where I feel as safe as in Manila. While frustrations and disappointments still exist, they are part of any relationship. Manila possesses a lasting charm that is optimistic, hopeful, and uniquely inspiring—a Tinder-like love match with a love story still fervently waiting to unfold.