Andrea Brillantes on moving forward from breakup: 'Iiyakan ko ba yung lalaki na hindi nagpapa-laundry ng isang taon?'
Vice Ganda (left) and Andrea Brillantes (YouTube)
Hoping to inspire others who have experienced heartbreak, Kapamilya star Andrea Brillantes recently offered some valuable guidance on how to heal from a toxic relationship. "Isipin yung nakaka-turn off sa kanya. Mare-realize mo na hindi pala siya ganun ka special," said Andrea, during an interview on Vice Ganda's vlog uploaded on YouTube on Sunday, July 16. "Think about what will turn you off. You will realize that he is not that special." Andrea, 20, did not mention any names when she spilled some of her experiences with her exes. Could she possibly mean former boyfriend basketball star Ricci Rivero when she mentioned the items in the condo and the laundry? When asked if exes should return gifts or things, Andrea told Vice Ganda: "Kapag kinuha ko yung lahat ng binigay ko sa kanya, wala na siyang gamit sa condo." Then Andrea added: "Gusto ko lang sabihin, minsan, kung hirap kang mag-move on, kailangan mo talagang isipin yung mga bagay na talaga ba, iiyakan ko yung lalaki na hindi nagpapa-laundry ng isang taon? Ganun." Andrea came to the realization that unfaithful boyfriends will never acknowledge their mistakes under any circumstances. "Sadly no. Parang half lang yung aaminin nila eh. Hindi talaga sila umaamin," she said. "Kapag pinakita sa'yo ni Lord yung dapat mong makita, alamm mo na yung gagawin mo kung talagang vina-value mo yung self mo. "Ang dami ko ng pinag-daanan sa life. Bakit ako mag-aano sa lalaki lang? There's so much to this life than just one boy," Andrea also said. Recently, Andrea confessed that she was deeply in love when she ended things with Ricci. "Very much na love na love ko pa. In love pa ako nun pero parang may iba na eh. So paano ko isisiksik sarili ko dun? Saan na ako run? Love na love ko pa siya kinaya ko pang lunukin yung dapat na hindi ko na tatanggapin pero ganun ko sya kamahal. At saka kahit gaano siya pangit pakinggan kasi 19 ako nun, date t marry kasi akong tao, very romantic ako. So akala ko s'ya na pero kailangan ko talagang tanggapin na hindi," she said. Andrea also mentioned that she aspires to become a mother in the future. "Isa sa pangarap ko ay maging mommy. So paano ko ma-a-advice yun sa magiging anak ko ko kung hindi kayang gawin sa sarili ko. So kailangan kong ipakita na may self value ako para magkaroon din ng self value yung anak ko para maituro ko sa kanya yung tama," she added. Andrea mentioned that, despite the breakup, her friends and family still contribute to her strength. For the full vlog, please click: [https://youtu.be/EHiRGyX0qpw](https://youtu.be/EHiRGyX0qpw)