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FASHION PULIS: Grooming exposed

Published Oct 8, 2022 09:26 am

Going around the grapevine is the intriguing post of a Social Media Personality (SP) about being groomed by a Non-showbiz Educator (NE).

SP has posted photos of her as a teenager with the adult NE. Now, years later and already beyond her teens, SP felt NE took advantage of her then. NE was already an adult in a position of authority and SP was a teenager, studying to finish high school.

Sexual harassment cases involving teachers and students have been exposed in the past months. SP’s experience could be added to the list. What makes her experience sad is her claim that some prominent personalities of the institution were allegedly aware of their ‘relationship’. As young and naïve then, SP believed that those personalities should have done something.

Worse, NE is apparently still an employee of the said institution. SP has bravely made her posts public and tagged the said institution. Since the posting, accusation, and calling out, the institution and the person concerned have yet to make a statement addressing the matter.

‘I can’t change the past abuse, but I can change the impact it has on me today!’ ― Patricia Dsouza

Unrequited love

The tension could have been real. However, things moved slowly and the feelings might have dissipated.

Talented Female (TF) shot into fame because of her talents in several aspects that could make one a household name. Having a popular former lover added to her recognition as well. Alas, that relationship did not last, but TF persevered with her career and moved on.

When Eligible Lad (EL) met TF, they realized they had many things in common. Both were well-educated, articulate, and service-oriented. TF was smitten with EL, and signs were there that he might be interested in her, too. However, as time passed, their directions were moving away from each other.

EL and TF found themselves targets in the eyes of observers. Thus, any moment they were seen together in public resulted in a social media explosion. The attention was overwhelming. Consequently, while many were in favor with them as each other’s forever, such notion remained fleeting. At least, on EL’s part.

EL chose his path and as a man of honor, geared his life towards his promise. Pursuing love became secondary. This decision thus placed TF in the non-priority list. However, TF remained visible, making some observers start to label her as trying hard to win EL’s attention and affection. Apparently, TF made sure her endeavors were aligned with EL’s plans.

The question now is if TF will succeed in winning over EL. But then, his focus is too firm to be distracted by anything that is not part of his plan. Will love win over ambition later?

‘When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, "What was it that you wanted and why didn't you fight for it?’ ― Shannon L. Alder

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