Almost the same time last year, YouTuber Crisha Uy made public her breakup with then boyfriend, actor Joem Bascon via a vlog.
Now she has posted another vlog reacting to comments, tags, assumptions, and gossips about the failed relationship.
She also shared how she reacted the first time she saw photos of Joem with Meryll Soriano and their baby.
“I remember that photo that was released that day, it was uploaded before my birthday. Nag flood ‘yung tags, mentions, comments then I thought it was early birthday greetings,” she said.
According to Crisha, she already knew about the two having rekindled their relationship, as well as, their bundle of joy “long way before pa nu’ng na upload ‘yun.”
She admitted to feeling bad about it.
“Nagalit ako kasi bumalik ‘yung feeling ko na I was betrayed all over again,” she explained.
“Iba pala ‘yung feeling ng nakita mo versus kinuwento or chinika lang sayo. Parang feeling ko kasi kailangan kong ilabas ‘yung nararamdaman ko that day, ‘yung galit ko, ‘yung sakit na ‘yun kung ano man ‘yung nararamdaman ko that day.
“But hindi dahil mahal ko pa siya kasi naka move on na ako, kung hindi finally, na confirm ko na nagsinunggaling talaga siya nuon. That I was lied to.
“Kasi I gave them the benefit of the doubt eh, before. Pero ‘yun nga, sampal pala sa mukha nu’ng nakita ko ‘yun. Sampal sa mukha na tama pala ‘yung hinala ko nuon na finally girl, confirmed! Ganu’n ‘yung feeling,” she added.
Crisha also talked about the reason why she and Joem never had a baby.
“That time kasi it was not in our minds… siguro kasi we’re not with the right person,” she said.
“We were planning to get married ta’s tsaka na kami magka-family. Pero ‘yun nga I thanked God na hindi natuloy ‘yun kasi we’re really not meant to be. And God is good.”
How about a marriage proposal?
“No ring? Ano sakitan? Don’t worry kasi naiyak ko na ‘yan nu’ng 2019 pa. So 2021 na, so let’s move on!”
Crisha then wrapped up her vlog by saying, “Somewhere along the way talaga madadapa ka pero hindi ibig sabihin magpatalo ka sa emotions mo. Sa mga nakaranas ng tulad nito, ‘wag kayong magmadali.”
She urged, “I hope na tulungan niyo ako to close this chapter of my life… I guess the greatest takeaway sa lahat ng ito, including the recent, ang importance ng honesty… Honesty kahit during breakup stage, kahit masakit. Kasi if may honesty may maiiwan na respeto sa isa’t-isa.”