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'Love me or leave me!'

Published Mar 22, 2025 04:03 pm

THROUGH UNTRUE

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Why is it so difficult to repent of past mistakes and sins? Perhaps it is because repentance requires not only changing our behavior but also questioning who we are. It is hard to let go of a self-image that is shaped by our past choices. We are often reluctant to sever our connection with the past, no matter how painful or destructive it may have been.


Another reason is fear. We tend to prefer what is familiar because it feels safer and easier. For example, despite clear evidence that we are becoming obese, we continue our old eating habits because changing them requires effort and sacrifice. Instead of taking steps to manage our weight, we compare ourselves to others who are in a worse situation. We think we are thin by looking at those who are fatter than us.


In today's Gospel reading, Jesus challenges this kind of thinking. He rebukes the Jews for assuming that those who suffer tragedies or disasters are greater sinners than they are. Jesus warns them of an even worse fate if they refuse to repent of their sins. To emphasize His point, He tells them the parable of the barren fig tree. This tree symbolizes their outward observance of laws and rituals while lacking the inward fruit of true repentance.


Jesus’s warning is also directed at all of us who outwardly profess faith in God but resist turning away from our sinful practices. He challenges us to make a choice: “Love me or leave me.” How can we claim to love God when we consistently stray from the path of righteousness?


“Love me or leave me” is not a harsh ultimatum but a call for authenticity. Jesus detests half-hearted faith that seeks personal gain without committing oneself wholly to God. Jesus's words have never been more relevant than today: “I know your deeds. You are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either one or the other! But because you are lukewarm — neither hot nor cold — I am about to spit you out of my mouth. So be earnest and repent. I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with me” (Revelation 3:14-20).


Repentance is not merely feeling guilt, regret, or remorse but making a genuine decision to seek conversion. The alternative is to perish. To perish does not simply mean physical death. It refers to the consequences of wasting our lives on fleeting, trivial pleasures that fail to bring true contentment or fulfillment. The tragic ends of many celebrities, as well as political and religious leaders who refuse to change their sinful ways, prove that relentlessly pursuing superficial joy leads to disaster. Sin brings its own punishment.


The curse of the fig tree also serves as a cautionary tale for government leaders who profit from their refusal to implement necessary reforms and policies to address systemic inequalities in society. Their stubbornness will eventually result in their downfall, preceded by the collapse of social cohesion while their constituents languish in collective inertia and indifference.


“Repent or perish” or “Love me or leave me” is God’s way of warning us about the dire consequences of disobedience to His commands. In the Gospel of John, Jesus declares, “If you love me, keep my commandments” (John 14:15). This connection between love and obedience forms the foundation of sincere devotion. Following God’s commands is the proof of a passionate love for Him.

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