The great odyssey of a Pinoy far from home

In stories, at fiestas, in our balikbayan boxes


At a glance

  • For Filipinos abroad, the balikbayan box is more than just a package—it’s a lifeline to their roots, a vessel of comfort, and often the subject of hilarious anecdotes.


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By Jacqueline Lucero

Illustration by Poch Eulalia

The sun rises on a bustling street in Manila as the aroma of freshly cooked adobo and 3-in-1 coffee wafts through the air. Jeepneys weave through traffic, and tricycles add to the noise that the karaoke tunes echo from neighborhood homes. This quintessential Filipino scene is just a snapshot of the vibrant culture that millions of Filipinos leave behind when they embark on their journey into the vast expanse of the Filipino diaspora. From Europe to Asia, from North America to the Middle East, the Filipino spirit has spread its wings, creating a tapestry of stories that are as relatable as they are captivating. 


One of the most iconic symbols of the Filipino migration is the humble balikbayan box. This seemingly unassuming cardboard container holds a world of emotion, adventure, and a cornucopia of goods. For Filipinos abroad, the balikbayan box is more than just a package—it’s a lifeline to their roots, a vessel of comfort, and often the subject of hilarious anecdotes.


Often meticulously packed to the brim for months on end with goodies from their host country, this box should have the staple canned goods of Spam and Hormel, chocolates, instant noodles, designer clothes and knockoff bags, rubber shoes, perfume, lotion, soap, and everything else that can fill up all the nooks and crannies of that iconic box.


As customs officers scratch their heads over the array of international wonders, the overseas Filipino can’t help but chuckle. After all, only in the magical world of balikbayan boxes can Spam cans achieve rock star status, lotions and soaps become spa celebrities, perfumes crown Nanays as fragrance monarchs, and rubber shoes transform brothers into fashion-forward sprinters. It’s a tale of migration, status, and a sprinkle of hilarity that only the balikbayan box can deliver.


And then there’s our fiestas. If there’s one thing that unites Filipinos across the world, it’s our unwavering love for fiestas. No matter the distance from home, Filipinos are always ready to celebrate with a hearty “Mabuhay!” Whether it’s a community gathering in Dubai or a neighborhood potluck in New York, the fiesta spirit is alive and kicking.


At a Filipino fiesta abroad, you’ll find the quintessential lechon taking center stage, surrounded by pancit, lumpiang shanghai, menudo, and leche flan. But what truly captures the essence of the Filipino migration is the fusion of cultures that occurs at these gatherings. Imagine an auntie clad in a barong Tagalog, salsa dancing with newfound friends from Latin America while enjoying a bowl of sinigang with rice. It’s a melting pot of flavors and traditions, resulting in a one-of-a-kind cultural exchange that leaves everyone laughing, learning, and maybe even attempting the tinikling dance. 


While the balikbayan box and fiestas offer a glimpse into the fun and flavor of the Filipino landscape abroad, there’s a deeper layer that often goes unnoticed—the quest for identity and belonging. As Filipinos adapt to new cultures and societies, we grapple with the delicate dance of preserving our heritage while embracing our adopted homes.


In the heart of bustling London, a second-generation Filipino might be pondering whether to bring menudo or bangers and mash for lunch. This culinary conundrum becomes a source of both amusement and contemplation as the individual navigates their dual identity with a dash of humor and a sprinkle of toyo at suka. 
Amid the tales of balikbayan boxes, fiestas, and cultural crossovers, it’s essential to highlight the remarkable contributions that Filipinos have made across the globe. From nurses and caregivers who provide compassionate care to engineers and IT professionals who power technological advancements, Filipino emigration is a force to be reckoned with. 


In the bustling streets of New York, a group of Filipino nurses share hearty laughter as they reminisce about their early days in the city. They’ve weathered the storm together, from challenging shifts to snowy adventures. As they swap stories, it becomes evident that their camaraderie and resilience have not only shaped their own journeys but have also left an indelible mark on the healthcare landscape of the US. 


The Filipino diaspora is more than just a lifestyle. It’s a mosaic of experiences, challenges, and triumphs that shape the lives of millions. From the quirky balikbayan box chronicles to the heartfelt search for identity, every aspect of this journey adds a unique brushstroke to the vibrant canvas of Filipinos abroad.


Whether you’re sharing a hearty laugh over the antics of a balikbayan box or marveling at the resilience of a nurse far from home, the Filipino diaspora invites us all to join in the grand tapestry of humanity, one witty anecdote at a time.